Christians know that divorce is a serious matter. The Bible speaks of marriage as a sacred bond that is meant to last a lifetime. Dissolving a marriage may make you feel like you are breaking a sacred vow you made.
If you have prayed and come to the conclusion that divorce may be the path you need to follow right now, it helps to know that a Christian attorney can help you feel more comfortable and confident about the new direction your life is taking.
The team at New Beginnings Family Law is here to help you navigate that path and make it as smooth as possible. Divorce is never easy, but with the right attorney – one who understands your situation and offers compassion and respect – you can make this transition less painful.
Our goal is to help you move forward towards a new and positive beginning. Contact us today at for a consultation about your situation and your future.
Choosing to get a divorce is always a difficult decision. With the love and support of friends, family, and wise counsel and reflection on God, sometimes there is the realization that divorce is the option that best suits your circumstances.
When there are problems in a relationship, emotions will run at an all-time high. There could be feelings of resentment, anger, loneliness, vulnerability, sadness, and overwhelming stress. These emotions can make it difficult to think rationally and practically about a situation.
During these times, turning to the advice of a therapist, counselor, or spiritual leader may be helpful. They can help you sort through your emotions and get to the core of the problems that are occurring in your relationship. While the Biblical ideal is a lifelong marriage, circumstances may make that impossible.
With wisdom and love in your heart, it may become clear that the Lord’s plan is for you to remove yourself from a situation that isn’t working for you or your family. Some situations may even make the continuation of marriage dangerous.
God loves all his children, and putting their physical, emotional, or financial health in harm’s way hurts Him.
As a Christian contemplating divorce, your mind is probably already racing with dozens of questions, worries, and heartaches. You have probably already confided in your family, close friends, and your spiritual leader looking for guidance. You may also want to think about why you got married in the first place. What has changed? Make sure that you are communicating with your spouse and really listening to their point of view.
If you have searched your soul and prayed for guidance during this emotionally charged and difficult time in your life and the situation is still heading toward divorce, here are some important things to consider as you move forward:
If you think that divorce is your only option at this point, you probably have incredibly good reasons laid out in your head for why you want to get divorced. In the state of Alabama, you may file for divorce in one of two ways.
Alabama allows you to file for a no-fault divorce. A no-fault divorce typically means there are irreconcilable differences and a breakdown of the marriage.
Alabama also allows spouses to file for divorce based on fault. This would mean proving to a judge that a spouse has engaged in some type of misconduct. Fault grounds can include adultery, abandonment for at least one year, deviant sexual behavior, habitual drinking or drug use, and domestic violence, among others.
Be honest with yourself, what are you expecting as a result of your divorce? Are you looking to move into a new relationship right away? If you have children, what do you expect their lives to look like post-divorce? What is your financial or work situation going to look like?
These are tough questions to answer, but you need to take a look at your life and imagine what you want it to really look like after a divorce. You may need to do a little extra soul searching because life following a divorce has its own set of challenges.
An attorney New Beginnings Family Law can help paint an accurate picture of what you can expect from a divorce. We will help guide you and give you the best options to make this transition as smooth as possible for you and your family.
If you find in your heart that divorce is the right option for you, that is the first step. The legal team at New Beginnings Family Law can help you negotiate a divorce agreement or custody arrangement that works for you and causes the least amount of pain and strife as possible, especially where children are concerned.
In order to make your transition as smooth as possible, we will work closely with you to understand you and your family’s situation, and we will meticulously gather evidence to support your needs and the role you see yourself playing in your children’s lives following your divorce. We will also work to ensure that every detail of your agreement is outlined in your divorce decree, in case your ex-spouse contests your agreement down the road.
While we wish every divorce could proceed amicably, sometimes that’s not possible. In that case, our caring attorneys will be by your side every step of the way. We will use the strength of our evidence to present a strong argument before the court and support you and your children’s best interests. We want to help you achieve the best possible outcome for you and your family.
Going through a divorce can be an emotionally and spiritually taxing life event. During this time, make sure you have a support system in place to help you through the challenges you may experience, or even just as an outlet for your emotions. Close friends, family, prayer groups, your pastor, and other trusted spiritual advisors are great resources. You may even want to turn to professional therapy for help.
You may be cutting ties with a spouse, but now is not the time to cut ties with those close to you. Make time for yourself and your support group. Also, make sure that you are taking the time to talk to your children about the situation. They need to feel safe, secure, and, most importantly, loved.
When going through a divorce, it is normal to feel scared, anxious, and stressed – maybe even guilty or ashamed. This is a moment you probably didn’t think you’d have to live through. It can be tough sorting through not only your feelings, but also all the changes that divorce brings to your everyday life.
Some of the best resources out there are already at your fingertips, such as family and close friends. Your church may be an excellent place for you to seek spiritual help. Many churches have ministries that specifically address issues related to divorce and marital strife.
We have compiled other helpful resources for couples who are contemplating or are going through a divorce:
You may be unsure who you can turn to during this difficult time. Rest assured that you can always count on the support and compassion of the legal team at New Beginnings Family Law. We put you and your children first and will help you navigate not only the legal aspects of divorce, but the spiritual aspects as well.
We have caring attorneys who make themselves available when you need them. We can also help you search for other resources that may help ease your spirit as you work through this period of transition. You don’t have to go through this process alone. We are here to help.
At New Beginnings Family Law, our experienced team of attorneys know family law inside and out. We pride ourselves in offering you an objective and practical assessment of your situation and what types of outcomes you can expect. Your best interests and those of your children come first. We will aggressively negotiate on your behalf to try and achieve those outcomes.
At New Beginnings Family Law, we also understand that divorce isn’t only a matter for the law. It is a time to pray, reflect, and reevaluate our relationship with the Lord and what path He wants us to travel. Our understanding of Alabama family law is deep. Our connection with the Lord is deeper. It’s that connection and understanding that makes New Beginnings Family Law a unique firm that is committed to helping Christians through their divorce journey.
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If you are contemplating a divorce, contact New Beginnings Family Law and let us help you achieve a solid understanding of your options and how you can move forward if that is what you choose. Part of making a wise decision about your future is understanding all your options. We can help you do that so that you are well-informed and able to make the best decision possible.
Schedule a case consultation with our experienced Huntsville divorce attorneys today by calling us or contacting us online. Let us help you take the next steps towards your new beginning.